Does An Ostomy Mean The End Of Your Life

Medical procedures can be a really scary thing, especially if you are not totally sure what exactly it is that you are getting yourself into. The same thing can be said for anybody that has ever had an ostomy. Most people I know who have had to get ostomies at some point in their life have always had the feeling that their life was completely coming to an end. This just seems like a crazy thought process to have, because ostomies are completely life saving procedures! Sure, you may have the occasional patient die when going under the knife, but they knew the risks, am I right? Anyways, if you are about to get an ostomy soon and are worried about its lasting effects on your ability to do tasks that you love doing and living your life like normal, you do not actually have to be that worried, In fact, pretty much everything that you can do without an ostomy, you can do with an ostomy! Except for, of course, going to the bathroom like a normal human being because that’s just not a possibility. 

The main thing to keep in mind is that you have to be patient with yourself and with your body. I remember back to when I had my ostomy put in several years ago; I was so frustrated during the recovery process, because I was tired of being sore and not being able to do anything! Most of the time, I just layed around my house in sweatpants and watched netflix. Don’t get me wrong - this is super fun and relaxing for a while, but after a couple weeks it starts to get old. That being said, I talked to my doctor about trying to speed up the recovery process if at all possible because I wanted to get back to doing my life the way I wanted to.

The doctor, and other medical personnel, assured me that life was going to get back to normal as long as I was patient and did not push my body harder than it could go. That involved eating the right things, cleaning my stoma as directed, and avoiding activities that could be harmful for my stoma. Some activities, like physical activity such as playing sports or working out, can be detrimental to the recovery process after getting a stoma put in. However, after waiting an appropriate amount of time after being discharged from the hospital, returning to these activities is actually recommended. 

Naturally, there are some things that should be considered off limits altogether for anyone with an ostomy. What are some examples of these? Well, the main ones that I can think of right now are very physical contact sports, like football or hockey. I know that this is a huge bummer to some people, but the reality is that keeping yourself and your stoma safe should be your number one priority. When I was younger, I really wanted to play hockey. I would ride round the road outside my house and the church parking lot nearby in my rollerblades and play street hockey with some of my friends. I always wanted to join an actual league somewhere, but it was too much of a driving commitment for my parents because there were no local hockey leagues near me. Also, it could get a bit expensive. 

What Can I Eat After My Ostomy

If you are worried about your upcoming ostomy, then just know that you are not alone. Thousands of people just like you have had to undergo this surgery before, and each one of them has turned out fine (though, realistically, I’m sure there are several people that have died due to complications caused by their ostomy). Anway, what I would like to talk about today is what eating will look like for you once you have completely undergone your surgery and are on your way down the treacherous road to recovery. Eating with an ostomy can look different for different people, depending on who you are and what your circumstances are. Typically, the doctors, surgeon, nurses, and other medical staff will inform you about how you can approach eating in the next few weeks following your surgery, especially for the first couple weeks or so that you are recovering from surgery in the hospital. Most people really do not have any sort of appetite while they are first recovering from surgery. Plus, we can probably all agree that hospital food is usually absolute garbage and would be better served with a vial of anthrax to put oneself out of the misery of eating that mess. Anyways, once you are released from the hospital after recovering somewhat from your ostomy, it is now up to you to take care of yourself and make sure that you are eating the right things at the right times. So, let’s talk a little bit about what that looks like for the rest of this article.

The first thing that I would like to mention is that it is important to eat a lot of small meals throughout the day while you are recovering from your ostomy. Like I mentioned before in the paragraph above this one, there is a good chance that you will not have much of an appetite following your surgery. However, it is super important to eat regardless of how hungry you are, since your body needs plenty of nourishment in order to keep recovering from all the stuff that it just went through. To start off for the first week or so, the best types of foods to eat are really bland ones. I like to compare it to the type of diet that you may eat while experiencing an upset stomach: rice, bread, bananas, plain yogurt, and other types of really plain foods. While it is true that nobody enjoys eating bland foods, I must say that it is super important to stick to this diet for a few weeks to avoid any complications with your stoma. However, as you continue to slowly recover from your ostomy, you may find yourself craving for your old favorite foods again that you just really want to get your hands on. What about those delicious foods you used to love? Will you ever be able to eat them again?

The answer is yes! You may be surprised (but excited) to hear that you can actually enjoy a lot of the same foods that you used to even before having an ostomy. As you start to get better after surgery, it is important to start adding some of your normal foods back into your diet. It is important to do these things slowly, since you will want to take great care to identify how each new food affects your body and your stoma.

How To Take Care of Your Stoma

If you’re like me, then you hate the everyday pain of having to clean and take care of your stoma. It can seem like such an annoying addition to your already busy day - after all, it seems like it's just another thing you have to worry about. Well we’ve all been there; in fact, I feel like it gets harder and harder for me to have the motivation to take care of my stoma. I am usually pretty motivated in all aspects of my life, especially when it comes to working out and taking care of myself. However, some days I feel like my quality of stoma treatment just goes way down. Taking care of my stoma has been an everyday thing for me since getting a colostomy, and so I’m no stranger to the whole process. And some days, it really does feel like a whole process. Fortunately for you, I am going to impart some of my knowledge surrounding the care of your stoma and how you can hopefully cut down on the time it takes to take care of it.

Getting a stoma put in is kind of like getting a new body part in some ways. At first you’re like, “woah! That doesn’t belong there”. But eventually you get used to it, and it becomes just like any other part of your body that you have to deal with every waking second of every day. When cleaning your stoma, it’s important to know that a little blood is not unusual. After all, it is literally inside your body and therefore has that mucus membrane surrounding it or whatever, so it’s totally okay that it’s a little bit red. It’s also not painful to touch when cleaning it because there is no sensation in the stoma. Only sadness. Anyways, don’t be afraid of a little blood here and there when you’re cleaning out your stoma. When you’re cleaning it, don’t be afraid to really get in there! Obviously you want to be careful with it, but it is definitely not going to get messed up just from a little cleaning. The best things to use when cleaning it is honestly just some medical wipes and water, and make sure to dry it with a cloth and some soft cotton wool. 

Soap will likely be irritating to your stoma or the skin surrounding your stoma, so it might be better just to use baby wipes or something like that! Skin around that area can be sensitive, so make sure to treat it carefully in every way that you can. If you are trying to decide if it’s better to take a bath or a shower with your stoma, there is good news; either one is fine! Your stoma and ostomy gear will handle either a shower or a bath just fine. Just make sure to keep all creams, soaps, oils, and whatever else you have away from your stoma. Personally, I enjoy showers a lot more than baths. I think baths are not very productive for cleaning, but I can understand people who like baths just for relaxation purposes. In some way I can see how baths are relaxing, but I usually end up getting really overheated in a bath and can’t be in there for more than 10 minutes or so.

 

Has Your Ostomy Bag Been Limiting You?

I have always been a huge fan of the outdoors. Growing up in rural west Michigan has given me plenty of opportunities to go out and explore the outdoors and to really get in touch with nature. I really enjoy backpacking across the state on different trails and paths, as well as taking day trips to the sand dunes bordering Lake Michigan. Truly, some of my favorite memories are ones that were made on the beautiful west side of the state; sleeping bear dunes, traverse city, camping on Lake Michigan - you name it. 

After some complications with my colon related to a cancerous tumor, I found myself sitting in a doctor's office waiting for some critical news. I came to find out that I would need to be wearing an ostomy bag for the foreseeable future. My friends and family were very supportive during this time, and even sat with me over long periods of times in the waiting room while we were still waiting to hear back on everything. Immediately after getting the news about my ostomy, I was concerned with how my life would change going forward. Am I going to be able to eat the same foods that I normally eat? How will this affect my social life and my interactions with others? Will people be able to tell I have an ostomy simply by looking at me? My worst fears and nightmares all began to rush through my mind at once. I was not ready for this change and I did not ever think I would find myself in this position.

Another huge concern of mine was how my ostomy would affect my love of the outdoors. I was concerned that I wouldn’t be able to go on hikes like I used to, especially overnight backpacking trips in more remote areas. What if there were complications related to the ostomy bag and things went poorly? I also really enjoy the beach, and I began to think about how maintaining my life as a beach-going Michigander might become much more difficult with the addition of my new medical status. Sand and water do not seem to be a good combo when one has a stoma in their abdomen. I spent many months in distress and disarray about the way this procedure would affect my life and how difficult it would be to adjust to this new lifestyle.

I decided that I would like to continue my hobby of enjoying the outdoors as much as possible. Sure, I might be limited in some ways, but I was determined to adapt my lifestyle in a way that made it possible for me to spend more time outdoors. I looked for activities that were doctor approved and would not have a negative impact on my ostomy bag. Simple things like walking and biking are very doable and do not cause any strain on my stoma. I have also discovered a new love for water activities like canoeing and kayaking, which is something that I had not been super interested in before my procedure. I also began to spend more time fishing, wood working, and whittling as a way to further connect myself with nature. Sure, things have slowed down a bit, but I have found that life with an ostomy is not so bad. In fact, I still very much enjoy all of what life has to offer me.

Eating With an Ostomy

So you’ve gotten surgery and now have a stoma, huh? This is a confusing and scary time, I’m sure, but you won’t be finding any sympathy from me. You’re going to be fine! I’m going to put together a short article on how you can approach eating with your ostomy bag life and how to best handle your day-to-day activities. Just remember to take things slow and be patient with yourself; many of us have had the same questions, fears, and concerns that you are having right now, and we all turned out just fine! Trust me and trust the process. Without further adieu, here are some tips for eating after your ostomy.

The first few weeks after surgery are going to be a little bit different than your normal day-to-day eating habits once you have recovered from surgery. Your body is still very sensitive and you are adjusting to the new whole that the doctors so lovingly cut out in your abdomen. This means that your approach to food is going to be different for a few weeks. I suggest that you try to eat small meals more frequently throughout the day. While I was recovering from surgery, I made sure to eat small meals about six times a day instead of 3 larger ones. I think this is overall better for your body anyways, so maybe it’s a blessing in disguise that you will be eating smaller meals more frequently rather than large ones. Also, make sure to chew your food very thoroughly and eat slowly. Why are you going so fast? There’s no need to rush your food down, after all, it’s not going anywhere except for into your fancy new pouch. You’ll also want to eat mostly bland and low fiber foods to avoid any further complications with your ostomy.

It’s important that you talk to a nutritionist before you’re discharged from the hospital about what you can and cannot eat following surgery. Let’s face it, I’m just some random guy on the internet that has absolutely no experience or knowledge regarding ostomy bags, so I would take their word over mine. Your doctor and nutritionist can help come up with some guidelines about what you should and should not be eating, and can talk about when it is time to start introducing new foods to your system again. My advice is to try things very carefully and slowly. You will eventually be able to eat most if not all of your favorite foods again, but it will probably take some time to figure out what your body can handle on a regular basis. So introducing newer more complex foods to your body slowly is beneficial to figuring out what you can and can’t eat.

Going forward, it is important to remember that everyone’s body is different. Not all foods will have the same reaction for everyone and some people have a harder time digesting food than others. Remember that having odor coming from your ostomy pouch is normal and should not be ashamed of; just make sure to carry around a small air freshener container when you go over to visit friends and family, that way you don’t stink up their bathroom. I hope this article was helpful for you in recovering from surgery and I hope that you can attain everything in your wildest dreams before you die from complications related to your stoma!

Having Trouble With Your Stoma?

I know from personal experience that living with a stoma is never an easy thing. After my ostomy, it took me a long time to figure out what I was doing with my life. It is easy to feel like your entire life is being turned upside down with the new addition of your stoma. However, I happen to know from my own experience with a stoma that it does in fact get better. If you’re anything like me recently recovering from an ostomy, you may be worried about how you will accommodate back to your normal life and routine. Well lucky for you, I’m here to tell you that it definitely can get better! You can actually do most, if not all, of the things you would find yourself doing before your surgery.

More people have had ostomies than you would think. I think it’s definitely true that there are people walking around all over the place with hidden stomas that you would never think are there. In fact, one statistic that I just now made up is that 1 out of every 6 people you see in any given Walmart likely have had some sort of ostomy and do indeed have a stoma. People with stomas can do all sorts of things that you wouldn’t expect! There are professional athletes with stomas I am sure. In addition, it is totally possible to do things like exercise while you have a stoma, just make sure you are cleared for exercise from your doctors and other medical personnel that you have in your life. I don’t want you to be afraid of living your life with a stoma. In fact, there are support groups for people like you who have had ostomies and are trying to adjust back to a normal lifestyle.

I hate the stigma associated with stomas and I really wish that more people would realize that ostomies are really not that big of a deal. Sure, it is definitely not convenient to have a weird medical pouch full of your own waste attached to you at all times, but there are worse things that could happen to you for sure. My hope for you going forward is that you don’t feel defined by your ostomy and your stoma; rather, I hope you can see that life will continue to improve for you and you will get used to living with your stoma. It was a hard adjustment for me, but things will always get easier.

People also worry about how eating will affect their stoma and whatnot. The good news is that, in most cases, you can usually go back to eating your normal diet after a few weeks of recovering from your ostomy. Obviously you will want to introduce yourself slowly to newer foods to see how it will affect your digestive system with your new stoma. Everyone’s body is different, so it is important to figure out what works best for you. Certain foods may impact your digestive tract worse than others, and it’s essential to figure out what your body is trying to tell you in these situations. I hope this article will help you in your stoma journey, and I hope that life gets easier for you. Ostomies are a weird thing for sure, but I don’t want you to think your life is defined by your stoma.

Enjoy Your Life With a Stoma

I joined the ostomy community about 5 years ago now, due to some unfortunate circumstances that led to a necessity of surgery. While I was at first skeptical about how things would workout, I have noticed there are a ton of people getting stomas who are downright pathetic. It truly makes me sad to see so many people lying down and accepting defeat in their life after getting an ostomy. After all, you just got a whole in your body, it’s not the end of the world. I wanted to make a list of some of the things I love to do whenever I can. This list of my hobbies is proof that you can do anything you want to even after getting an ostomy. My stoma has never held me back and yours shouldn’t hold you back either. Hopefully you can take some of this to heart and realize that there is more to life than sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself about getting an ostomy.

One thing I love to do is exercise. I have always been super into working out, and I haven’t let my ostomy pouch take this part of my life away from me. The biggest thing I had to change was making sure my ostomy pouch was properly taken care of before actually starting my workout. This can easily be done with wraps and belts that are specifically designed for people like me in this exact situation. By properly wrapping up my ostomy pouch and ensuring it is fitting tight to my body, I don’t have to worry about it jostling around under my clothes or getting caught on something in the weight room. I do all the physical activity I used to and more! I will say, I’ve cut back a bit on my weight lifting, because I don’t want to risk getting a hernia or something like that.

I also love the outdoors. I really enjoy hiking around trails back home in west michigan, especially in the fall time. Surprisingly, I also really love hiking in the winter time. There is something really cool about being outdoors in the cold walking through thick pine tree forests and being able to witness the stillness of nature that does well to ease one’s soul. I was definitely not about to let having an ostomy pouch get in the way of hiking with my friends and family, so I still enjoy that to this day! Again, make sure to be prepared in these situations and have plenty of spare ostomy supplies with you in case of emergencies. You’d hate to get caught with your pants down somewhere out in the middle of the woods.

I also really enjoy eating out with my family. This is another thing that you can still enjoy after getting an ostomy. My favorite places to go out are really nice steakhouses; those are a real treat. I hope this article inspires you to get out and do things that maybe you have been afraid to do after getting your ostomy. There is really nothing that you will be stopped from doing with an ostomy, and I am living proof. I mean, it is the year 2021, where technology and medical supplies are so advanced that you will really be okay no matter what you do.